Messing around with handover times..

[Wheredidthegoodgo]

Has anyone here had the nrp mess around with handover times.

Each time my ex tries to cause a confrontation at collection come bringing our DD back he starts messing about with handover times. Bringing her back an hour early, an hour late without telling me.. just basically being an arse. I think it's because I just don't engage in his arguements but this is court ordered and wondered if there is something the court can do ?

Don't know but keep a record...

Don't be there. I used to do this. I deliberately would go out for a walk or whatever. And turn up about 5 mins before the time he was due back. He tried to have a go at me a couple of times but I just ignored it. It was a bit shit for the kids for a couple of times but I told them, daddy came back early, he must have forgotten I told him 6pm. He stopped. If he's only doing 4 days a month parenting I'm buggered if he gets to shave hours off and impact my v v limited free time.
It's hard because you don't want to put the kids in the middle but unless he's an absolute tool, you'll only have to do it a couple of times.

@HugeAckmansWife he is an absolute tool. Anything he can do to get me to engage with him or create conflict