Hi
I am divorced and separated for 4 years and I am
moving to a new place with my lil one, I don’t have a great relationship with lil1s dad but he has been making an effort and we both do try.
Long story short, there has been many ups and downs and I have been really looking forward to move I have done a lot of clearing and decluttering and I decided to throw away all of my plates because a lot of them are chipped and I’d like to get new ones along with the chipped ones I threw away a decorative plate that was given to me by my ex, There is no accident I chucked it on purpose, It just reminded me of our old house etc.
so I put these things in heavy duty refuse sacks outside my garden that is shared with my neighbour and as it was quite heavy I didn’t take it to the dump straight away although I did eventually over the weekend I noticed that she took some plates out and the decorative plates and she set up a little greenhouse in the garden and recycled the plates for some of her plants which I don’t mind but it’s been bothering me that this bloody plate is sitting there I just want it to be gone, I think it’s crazy that it bothers me this much that she was going through my rubbish but then again it’s a relatively innocent thing to do am I completely unreasonable or is this something that with annoy people I just can’t think of many people who would go through other peoples refuse, it’s really petty and she is perfectly ok otherwise.
Tell me off pls I’m being silly ain’t I