I know its something little but this has really upset me, my children have gone to their fathers this evening and i asked my eldest to take a coat, as hes going out the door, im at the door and take it of the peg and go to pass it to him and hes gone to the car (i have a front garden ) he gets near the car and looks at me standing at the doorstep holding his coat, he runs back and says i dont need it, i have one at dads, i say to him can you take it please as your just in shorts and tshirt, he takes it off me and throws it back and runs to the car door and my ex winds down his window and says whats up? i say his coat, he says he doesnt need it i have one.
i say but ive just asked him to take it.
then my ex says im not waiting here all night and drives off.
Its a 45min drive away so what happens if they break down, my child will be cold!
they have clothes at their dads doesnt mean i send them naked!
Its not really about the coat its that i asked my son to do something and he said no, then his dad not only doesnt agree with me but drives off in a rush!
One side i think i should have left it, my son no. let him freeze.
Another side is that i feel my ex should have said just said to my child take it, knowing it will just sit in the car well all weekend.