I am really struggling....there is a ling history of manipulation and controlling behaviour but yesterday it reached a peak. My little mans daddy has only been able to see him supervised and was to be building up a relationship with him. Yesterday I received a message to say he had met some one new (this isn't the case its the same women he cheated in me with and its been on and off) and that he would be introducing her over the next few months to our little man who is 5. What he failed to admit is that he had tried to do this on Friday and my little man said he didn't want to see her. He has met her once before without me knowing.
My little man suffers with anxiety and has attachment issues. He also is under investigation for Autism or Sensory disorders. He gets very very angry and until last year this was only at me but it has now moved to school.
I understand that eventually there will need to be introductions but I don't think it should be now. He is only just establishing a relationship with his son after trying to take him last year and not return him. He has to have supervised contact. I feel so let down by his parents who are supervising as my worries have come true. They won't put my son first. I have cried all weekend. I suffer with anxiety from what he has put me through. I don't know where to turn or what to do. I needed to say it somewhere. My family and friends keep saying I've come so far over the last 2.5 years and that is right but I feel back at square one!
Has anyone been here? has anyone got any tips or tricks please?