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Feeling alone

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Misty9 · 28/02/2021 18:34

I figured this is the best place to post such a thread, but do any other lone parents just feel quite alone a lot of the time? I have 50 50 with exh so have quite a bit of time to myself, but I feel more alone when I have the kids. I think it's knowing that we'll never be a family unit of 4 again. I also seem to have more downtime when I've got the kids than my friends in two parent families seem to! Maybe I'm just a bit inattentive to my dc but they don't often want me involved in their games... I have a newish partner but only really see him when the dc aren't here, and don't intend to blend or whatever for various reasons.

I do remember feeling lonely in my marriage too, but wondered if anyone else just feels quite alone? I've no doubt the pandemic hasn't helped, but friends often prioritised family time at weekends anyway, so I'm not sure how different it would be.

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FreesiaFairy · 28/02/2021 19:06

:-( how old are your children?

Misty9 · 28/02/2021 19:13

9 and nearly 7

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FreesiaFairy · 28/02/2021 19:14

Out of interest how comes you're not wanting to introduce your new partner into the family (at some point)? Or are you just waiting to see how it goes?

Misty9 · 28/02/2021 19:16

They have met him but he's got quite a few children so it wouldn't ever be logistically possible. My eldest is also neurodiverse and I barely cope with him sometimes... I'm also not sure my relationship is right for me.

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FreesiaFairy · 28/02/2021 19:18

I'm sure they would like you involved in their games! How about baking with them or going on bike rides etc? But it must feel very lonely feeling like that. Mine is only a baby so luckily he needs me most of the time at the moment, but that will change. I guess at least it's nice that they have each other to play with and you don't need to worry that they are lonely, as you may do if it was an only child ? xx

FreesiaFairy · 28/02/2021 19:20

That just be tough if your son has extra needs xx

Misty9 · 28/02/2021 20:07

Thanks. We do do those kind of things, baking and long walks this weekend. I just often feel quite alone without another adult to talk to I guess. And wondered if anyone can relate...

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Happycat1212 · 28/02/2021 21:41

Yep, but I’m a lone parent to 4 ex isn’t involved. No chance of meeting anyone as kids with me 24/7 very lonely indeed 😣

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