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any suggestions in getting the paranoid ex to abck off ( only been trying 3 years!)

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h0pe · 17/10/2007 19:24

HI,

I made the decision to seperate from my extremely demanding and controlling ex 3 years ago, he however has other ideas.

He's done verything from breaking into my home and picking up our daughter from her bed whilst brandishing a knife to following me around intimadating me.

Why do men have the clever knack of make you think you over reacting about everything?

Gradually over the last couple of years i have got much much stronger but stil he doens't give up.

He doesn't have my mob number and contact arrangements are absolute concrete - his family collect/drop off but guess what- he's still not given up! Friday gone he took it upon himself to go to our daughters school unarranged and try and take her, i was so scared but managed to get there in time after receiving a call fromstaff. I told him to leave and that's all i said but he wouldn't go, eventually i had o call the polce. in front of all the parents at the school.#

When or what do i have to do to make him stop! i've had an injunction before, maybe go down that route again.

Also if anyone in same situation can you offer advise re friends? i do have some good firends but my cloest two riends have been rubbish, no support what so ever. I feel like I just want to talk to people who can understand - please say you do!

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Tinkerbel5 · 18/10/2007 11:11

I would get another injuction against him esecially if he is capable of snatching your child, if he is like this still after 3 years then he wont give up, I would get yourself a solicitor or go down to the CAB and they give legal advice there and ask them.

jellyjelly · 19/10/2007 10:14

I would go the injunction route as it must be scary for your daughter. I wouldnt hestitate.

Good luck

snotbuster · 19/10/2007 21:51

You also need a residence order. If he has parental responsibility the police cannot do anything if he takes your child - a residence order means that she must live with you and if he takes her (outside of arranged contact times) the police can interveen. Sorry you're going through this, hope things improve.

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