Can I drop him having this woman around my kids ?

[anon322020]

My ex came to see his kids at my house after work (6pm) ( only time he would see them all week with him working all week, and plus he wanted to try something out with their hair) anyway I had to allow it as it would be the on time he wound this week.

Anyway I thought nothing of it until his partner rang him screaming down the phone that their son together ( around 16 months of age) was really hurt and blood everywhere and an ambulance on the way, so he rushed out of my house in a mad panic, i was panicking thinking a child was hurt, he left my house to find she was outside my house in her car with her 3 kids!!!!

I didn’t even know my ex had given her my address, she has no right or need to know my address. She made up that her child was hurt so he goes rushing out and she can see him leaving my house. All he was doing was seeing his kids. What can I do now to protect me and my kids because this isn't normal and now I feel really uncomfortable with her knowing my address!!!

Then she messages me on Facebook and says I ' snook him into my house'

He's ok with her behaving like this, says it's fine, but I'm not ok with it.

He's now saying it never happens and she's 'unsend' the messages on Facebook now but I've screen shotted them.
I don't want someone like this around my children, how can I stop her from being around them?

He's allowed to introduce the kids to whoever he wants during his time with them.

I think that the only thing that you can do from now on is to have his contact with the kids out of your house.

Well, I suppose she has given you good warning that she's an insecure, barking mad, drama queen.

As Nando said, he can introduce his DCs to anyone he wishes, as long as they don't have a history of abuse etc. It sounds like she sees you as a threat so the best thing you can do is not rise, don't respond to her in any way, but record everything.

I hope it calms down.

You cant do anything, he can have whoever he wants around his children. And unfortunately as annoying as it is for you, you can't control another person deciding to tell someone your address. You need to just ignore her and not make anything a bigger battle than it needs to be. If shes as crazy as you make her sound the relationship won't last and soon she'll be out the picture

There isnt anything you can do, other than ignore her, block her and don't engage