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kayla12 · 08/08/2020 14:59

Hi everyone
I've previously posted about an issue I've had during this week

If you can't find my previous post
My daughter has special needs

After being reported by a neighbour ( her being malicious )

Making anonymous reports etc

Today I woke up to find that my daughters inflatable swimming pool had been thrown on the side of stairs that are closer to another neighbour and under there it smells like urine etc
So her swimming pool has been ruined.

Now I know it's her doing things again

What can I do please she's making my life hell slowly .

I have no camera out there so I can't give any proof :(

Someone pls
Any advice because it's becoming bad now

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Fatherbrownsbicycle · 08/08/2020 19:58

Is it an option for you to get cameras?
The pool could be cleaned so isn’t ruined but I understand the thought of it may mean you wouldn’t want DD to use it. No real advice as I’ve never had to deal with anything similar, just wanted to bump in case someone else could offer advice. Maybe moving this post to a different topic would get more responses as its a neighbour problem not necessarily a lone parent problem.
So sorry you are dealing with all this Flowers

CopperBeeches · 08/08/2020 20:25

Pool not ruined - can just be cleaned. Maybe deflate it and fold it and keep it inside your own flat not in communal areas. (Was it blocking neighbour's access or in other people's way?)

What is your neighbour reporting you for? What else is she doing to "make your life hell"?

JulyBreeze · 09/08/2020 01:02

Are you sure the wind hasn't blown it there OP, before jumping to conclusions?

SD1978 · 09/08/2020 01:24

Unless the pool has been burst- it's not ruined- may need a good scrub. If you left it up in a communal area- anyone could have got the humph with it to be fair- stagnant water grows mosquitos, and it's a shared yard. Is it an option to deflate it at night and bring it inside?

Butterer · 09/08/2020 01:29

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Anordinarymum · 09/08/2020 01:49

You can buy a cheap plug in camera and have it connected to your mobile. I have one at the front of my house. It's tiny. i would go down this route before doing anything else. If the neighbour is doing anything catch her out.

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