Mentally, physically, sexually abuse ex.

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Im 8 months pregnant, I have a DAA(domestic abuse advocate) who I speak to weekly, I also have a non molestation on my ex. The police have been called once.

Im yet to press charges on the sexual side,he done this whilst drunk, when i was on medication(sleeping tablets) and when i was sober(I do speak to a sexual abuse worker once every 2 weeks for support).

He wont be on the birth certificate and the baby will be having my last name.

Obviously I am preparing for him to take me to court. What are the odds he will even get any visitation/PR? How long is this process? Or any advice or experiences?

Im petrified of what he will do to DS in the future and behind closed doors(when the abuse took place)

Please be brave and press charges. You need as much "on paper" as possible. I'm so sorry you've had such a tough time and I'm glad you are being supported.

Would you consider a drastic house move, I think I'd be very tempted to move far far away.

@YourHandInMyHand I am trying to do my best but there is so much going on. I had a bad mental breakdown when DS1 was born due to stress. I dont want another repeat.

I am currently down south, I have thought the Highlands or Cornwall way.

There needs to be a charge on him to stop him having unsupervised access so you must do everything to get him charged.

@MySweatyPie will being charged with sexual assault would remove the right for unsupervised access forever?