Hello. My husband and I have been going through a rough time for nearly a year now. Last autumn, I suggested to him we try a trial separation. But he says he doesn’t believe in it and as soon as we separate, there’s no going back. I’m moving to another country for work, he was supposed to move with me, but now because of the conflict, he doesn’t want to. I’m moving with our small child. And ever since we discussed separation and I told him I really needed some time to myself, he’s been living in another room but in the same house. It’s now been 6 months of this. Throughout, he has been insulting me, saying that I’m not giving us a chance, that I’m ditching him, that I broke him life and so on. I keep repeating like a broken record that I want to try this separation. I’m finally now moving, it’s been delayed because of Covid, and I’m moving in a week with our kid. He’s just getting more and more upset, saying that these past months I haven’t done anything to help our relationship survive. I say that I have been trying to be friendly and nice, that we need to start getting along first before anything else, and that as I told him last autumn, I really need to try this separation. And he just recently told me that if I indeed wanted to get back together, then we would be looking for a place in the country where I’m moving in a week together, to make sure we both like it, so that I then take some time off alone there, and then he moves in. But I found a place there by myself because in my understanding, this is what separation means - that we each have our own place and we decide what we want. But he’s accusing me of lying, saying that I’m making up the whole trial separation stuff just to make it easier to split up permanently, and so on. And the more I have to say, no, I actually do want to just try it etc etc and the more he then insults me, accuses me of ditching him etc, the harder it’s becoming to indeed even want to ever see us as a couple. It’s been many months of this, and since March - 24/7 in the same flat. I’m so tired, I just want time and space alone, and I don’t want to constantly feel guilty... Am I doing it all wrong? Should we have been indeed looking for a place together?.. thanks.