I left my ex two years ago due to emotional (and some physical) abuse. It's been a total roller-coaster since then, with ongoing court. Ex wasn't a great dad and didn't spend much time with our young kids, but he demanded 50:50 to try and keep control over me and them. When this failed (he got eow and one evening a week currently) he just found new ways to cause issues. He's constantly making complaints/raising concerns about me to professionals (school, nursery, GP, and most recently social services). He'll also do things like telling one service that another service has said or recommended a particular course of action that isn't true.
I feel like I spend a huge chunk of my time having to fire fight all these issues, correct info and pre-empt issues. I think he's partially doing it just to continue his abuse and control, and also partly to try and create false 'evidence' for court (e.g. having GP apointments about issues relating to our children, giving false info and then using the medical records as evidence for court). He comes across as very intelligent, caring and genuine so his manipulation often works and people don't realise what he's up to.
I do have a good solicitor, but I don't think they appreciate how stressful this all is or the long-term consequences. Any advice?