I recently had a baby (a week ago) and have been self isolating with my 5 year old, teenager & partner since a week before lockdown. My ex husband has been quite distant from our kids since our divorce & doesn’t really push seeing the kids but I thought he might want to see them now I’m not pregnant & not considered high risk. I try not to dictate how he spends his time with them but on this occasion I asked him not to visit his parents with the 6 year old as per rules of not mixing households as I already felt he was vulnerable going to his (he’s a delivery driver & worked throughout lockdown.) When my son came home he said he’d been a grannies all afternoon while his dad went to the supermarket. He could’ve gone after he dropped him back to me as he’d only had our son 24 hours.
Do I stop my son going back until lockdown eases as I clearly can’t trust him to keep him safe? I’m cross he’s & his family have not been extra vigilant & put my son’s safety first & that they showed no consideration for his new baby sister (I can understand them not caring if I catch Covid but not the new baby or his teenage son who stayed home with me.) I feel like all my care & diligence in keeping my family safe has been undone. My parents, haven’t even been within 2 meters of us. Let alone been in their house.