Hi can I have some opinions on dd's contact with her dad please.
We split when she was 8 weeks old, and have had a very relaxed contact arrangement since. Mainly because she was slow to have a reliable routine and breastfed often.
Now dd's over a year we're trying to agree on a more stable arrangement. He wants her in the day at weekends and to see her on a Tuesday and Thursday. This is fine with me BUT.. on week days he works until past her bedtime so it would have to be morning contact, he proposes 8-9:30. He lives a 30 minute walk away, so by the time they got home and back it wouldn't be worth the journey. The librarys and soft play don't open until 9:30, and the park is only a good idea in nice weather.
So he wants to have contact at my house. I don't really like this option but also can't think of an alternative? I won't say no, if the shoe was on the other foot, I'd like to see her more often than just the weekend too. But if there's something I'm missing please point it out to me!