My ex doesn’t see the children we share, he hasn’t done so in almost 3 years (unless you count two times that he has seen them in 3 years) he messaged me a few times recently but I ignored the messages because after the last time we spoke he was really horrible to me and said he would never be a dad or see them.
I decided to block him and move on with our lives. like I said he’s messaged a few times since then (been about a year) on my birthday/Xmas / New Years, anyway he messaged me recently and I responded, probably only because of lock down tbh. anyway he told me he wants to see them again, didn’t mean what he said etc. I decided to speak to him and think about it (he wants to see them after lock down) I’ve been speaking to him for a few weeks, anyway today is dds birthday and he hasn’t acknowledged it at all, I don’t know if I’m just being silly but I think it’s quite bad as surely he should be trying to prove himself? Honestly I don’t even think he knows it’s her birthday and it’s reminded me why I blocked him. Am I being silly?