Hi so as the subject says, I am looking for advice because I honestly don't know what to do anymore. Sorry if it's a bit long winded.
Little bit of backround: My ex and I separated just under a year ago, we have a 18mth old together. He was having contact with DD 2/3x a week until I asked him to bring her home early one day due to her being seriously underfed. This caused him to lose his temper to screaming point. After a phone call to health services for advice, I was advised to change his contact with DD to supervised until ex sought out professional help for his anger issues.
Cue lawyers being involved because he just stopped coming to see her, twisted the truth and of course I was the bad guy :(
Note; There has still not been any attempt to resolve said anger issues.
Ex eventually started coming to see DD again 2/3x a week (supervised) Texts and phone calls asking about her progress on days he didn't see her.
My family have been in lockdown since the week before it was made official, due to young children and one of my siblings being very susceptible to severe chest infections. DD and I are staying at my mother's and she has asked that there be no visitors due to my sibling being vulnerable.
Since lockdown was put in place, I have been dealing with constant fights from my ex, ie demanding to visit, threatening to just show up, screaming down the phone to my mother, accusing us of putting DD at risk because we let her play in the enclosed back garden. I told him he could video call because I understand his frustration of not being able to visit. He has done so twice and hung up because DD was "too busy playing with stuff" It got to the point where I would have to message to find out if he was calling. My messages are being ignored, I can't call him because he threw and broke his phone during the phonecall in which he screamed at my mother.
The whole situation is making me ill. All I can think about is how unfair this is on DD and how much more she deserves, but I don't know what else to do. Any advice would be really appreciated. Apologies again for the long read.