So my childrens dad normally has the kids Weds for tea and Sat for the day. Overnight stays and longer periods are agreed depending on school holidays etc.
He has a flat nearby where he takes them but he also lives with his gf 80 miles away and often takes them there to her house, she has a daughter.
When lockdown was announced he suggested that he would come up every Saturday and have them overnight at his flat, but no longer do the Weds trip. Which I agreed to.
In the Easter holidays he was due to have them for a week for a family holiday for his mums 80th. Of course this was cancelled. He still wanted the children for a week though and wanted to take them to Wales to his gf house. I said no I didnt think they should be travelling to another household.
Yesterday he picked the kids up as usual, and then text me to tell me he has gone to Wales anyway and he is not bringing them back for a week! I hadn't prepared them or packed for them and also I hadn't bloody agreed to it. I was so distraught yesterday.
Please can someone help/advise?