Hi
So last year I met someone, we’d met a few times but I only saw him as a friend I didn’t see any potential for a relationship. Anyway, to cut an incredibly long story short, we went away but I don’t remember much about that night. My head felt very heavy and all I remember is him saying to me “why are you trying to get away”. I later discovered I was pregnant, I had seen one other guy but I’ve known him for a lot longer. I never confirmed to this guy that the baby could be his but immediately he wanted me to have an abortion. He was controlling, he’s under investigation for rape as I don’t remember much and I only had one glass of wine. He was desperate to get me into the bath with him that night and insisted that it’d be weird for him to ‘have a bath alone’. Anyway he’s harassed and stalked me for months, was interviewed for harassment but not charged as his behaviour was deemed not ‘dangerous enough’ but the police officer said he knows exactly what game he’s playing.
He’s sent his mum to the door, written letters to my parents, got his solicitor to contact my priest because I wouldn’t talk to her or him. Now he’s made an application to the court for access. His solicitor has told my solicitor that he’s going to take a Costs order out against me, but I don’t really understand what that means? How long does court take? Will a dna test be ordered? I don’t know what to expect.