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i am not surpeised but i thought ex dp might have phoned to see how dd got on at first day of school

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Tottie32 · 07/09/2007 21:08

Sad
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chocabloc · 07/09/2007 21:19

well its an ocasion he missed dont u dare ring him and tell him how it went if he was that intrested he wuold have caled by now!

Tottie32 · 07/09/2007 21:32

i wont

they are on a different planet

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Alambil · 07/09/2007 21:53

i'm not even convinced my ex knows my son is school age!! (not that I want him to!)

has your dd noticed?

Tottie32 · 07/09/2007 22:00

no she hasnt mentioned him,

just annoys me that they are at the top of my priority list yet so far down his

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chocabloc · 09/09/2007 12:39

hows things tottie?

Tottie32 · 09/09/2007 20:41

thanks for asking......

still not heard from him for dd

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mistressmiggins · 09/09/2007 21:31

I dont think they realise - out of site out of mind
my DS started 2nd year & H didnt even ask how he got on
I just give up - his loss not mine or my DS's
just dont give it another thought!!

Tottie32 · 09/09/2007 22:04

you are so right MM

it is laughable how they can switch on and off.....

HIM....
please please let me have dd for the weekend of my wedding ..... because it suits me to show her off to all my family (even though i normally have dd one evening in the week -never at the weekend) but i wont phone about her new school and i wont talk to her when i bump into you in town, because i havent the balls to introduce you to my new wife the women i left you and dd for - GUTLESS MAN

can you tell i am peeved

anyway hows things with you MM?

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chocabloc · 09/09/2007 23:19

yhe gud for u mm, thats exactly wht im doing! hes never seen my ds start nursey 1st bday or anything! out of sight and mind for me 2! u shud not allow him to take him to the wedding to punish him "oh sorry didnt hear from you and he was invited to a birthday party" but i bet u wouldnt cos u feel sorry for him! let him know whos in control and that u do have a life (even if u havnet come to terms with it or moved on) and u have other plans!

KerryMum · 09/09/2007 23:20

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chocabloc · 10/09/2007 11:32

maybe they shoukd make absent fathers work in a nursey with babies! lol it wouold be deemed as punishment to them! esp ones with colic and ones that wont sleep, ohh and ones with diarohea

mistressmiggins · 10/09/2007 19:21

today DD told daddy on the phone that she went to ballet
he asked her when she started - today was her first lesson

BUT shes known about it for weeks & he only has to ask
if he wasnt such a tw@t to me, I would be more forthcoming with info but hes not

incidently DS has speech therapy weekly (which H contributes half the money towards) but he never asks how DS is getting on - doesnt even ask which day it is....and to top it all, he told me recently he couldnt tell the difference the difference is unbelievable - H obviously doesnt bother talking (or listening) to DS when he stays for the weekend

like I said, I give up!!

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