i highlighted on the other thread how crap the csa are but just in case...its now been 7 months since i applied. when i sent in the form i was working and so i assume the money would have been mine. then i got made redundant in may. ive been told that whatever money my ex pays will be taken out of my benefit. thats absolutely fine...as far as im concerned he should be paying for his daughter and if i receive it from him instead of the state all the better. but...he obviously owes me money from when i was working and i wondered this...when they finally get him to pay and backdate it...where will the money from january to may go? is it mine...or not? can someone enlighten me?