Just wondering if anyone can offer any advice...
My children have just attended their third supervised contact session with my abusive ex. In our court order it says that he has to arrive and be in the building 15 minutes before I get there with the children and leave 15 mins after I have collected them.
For the first two sessions, he followed this but had his dad waiting in the car park in the car with his window down when I came to collect them in order to intimidate me.
Today, he was sat in the car park 10 mins after he was supposed to have been in the building so that when I arrived I was confronted by the sight of him. He didn’t even make any attempt to exit his car park until he could see that I had parked. I spoke with the contact supervisor and she apologised and said that she would speak to her manager but the intimidating behaviour has actually escalated since my solicitor last spoke to his (about the fact that it was completely unnecessary for his dad to be there staring at me as this defeats the purpose of the 15 minutes window which is to make me feel safe), so I’m concerned that even if they speak with him, the behaviour won’t stop and will continue getting worse.
Does anyone know if I can do anything about it? I can’t refuse to take the children to contact as I will be told that I’m obstructing his relationship with his children but surely there has to be a way to stop him doing this as I feel it’s just another way of him continuing to abuse me (he’s done a number of other horrendous things since we split up) even though we’re no longer together.