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Police helping contact arrangements?

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Graciebutterfly · 10/02/2020 20:33

Is it common for a police officer to help a parent in regards to having contact with a dc?
Has anyone else experience this.

I am confused as to why an officer would contact SS to arrange contact for a person on bail.

This is new to me so maybe others have dealt with this but from reading on here, police usually do nothing and tell you to go to court.

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Qwerty09876 · 10/02/2020 20:40

Sounds really odd tbh Confused but the police officer may just contact SS and say X what's contact with DC and then it will be up to SS and you're self as X has been arrested clearly

Graciebutterfly · 10/02/2020 22:39

Ex has had over 6 weeks. The officer want to remove ex's bail conditions for this contact.

I'm need to know if this is normal or if this is happening because ex is a officer himself.

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Sweetestdream · 11/02/2020 21:33

Nc. @whatthehelltotellthem
Well they have changed the officer in charge now, so obviously his conduct was acceptable.

Not to sure why they were trying to allow a bail condition to change when they still aren't anywhere near charged him until April/may.

I also don't understand with what ex is accused of why they believe after telling me not to them selves to allow contact.

It's just very scaring and adding extreme stress on me. And Google doesn't help but scare me more!

Sweetestdream · 11/02/2020 21:34

Also I informed them ex had contacted me indirectly on MN and they continue that day to get SS to confirm he's allowed in my home town.
Thankful the SS is amazing and extremely supportive.

whatthehelltotellthem · 11/02/2020 22:28

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Sweetestdream · 11/02/2020 22:40

That's what he got arrested for stalking and harassment, so the area condition on his bail is important to me and my dc.

He put a post up which was very manipulative and directed to me. He added points that I would only know and his writing style was the same.
He got it removed as he didn't receive very good response.

I am very lucky with SS and hopefully the new person in charge because it shouldn't take over 4 months to charge someone and in that time allow the person freedom to repeat the abuse.

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