So I’m getting worried just yet as I’m only 5 months pregnant but I’m got huge red flags all over this. So we aren’t together anymore, really unfortunate. But the biggest part of that reason is that he didn’t tell me he had a random one night stand with a stranger months before we got together, she got pregnant, wanted to keep it. Turned out to be twins and they are now 2. Things were beginning to get strained between us and then I fell pregnant and he told me that news, which I tried to deal with but just couldn’t so we split, kind of amicably.
Thing is,he told me he’d fudged his income or split it out or something into different accounts/companies so that she couldn’t claim what she was due. I was really uncomfortable with that but didn’t want to get involved, I just remember him telling me. He’s self employed, owns a few businesses so I imagine he knows what to do to give false financial info.
I just worry massively about going to do with me too, I consider us still friends and stuff, I haven’t a proble, with access or anything once the baby is here but I’m bloody petrified he’s going to do it to me too...I said to him jokingly don’t do that with me, please, I feel sorry enough for her! And he said ‘no it won’t we will never split up’ famous last words...
Any thoughts/ideas on what I can do to get organised on this quickly so I’m ready for worst case??