why does he think he has a right to say if i can see someoneelse or not

[mojosmum]

dds dad has just found out that i have met someone news travels fast round he as only met this someone on tuesday but he want mad at me saying why did i not tell him that i intended on dating & that it was his right to know as he is dds father i told him that the man i am seeing has not & will not be meeting dd soon so it is none of his business & he went mad calling me a slag & everything ive not had a relationship with anyone for the past 2yrs & have only had 1 relationship since splitting with him 7.5yrs ago could someone tell me how that makes me a slag or am i as he also said a stupid think blonde bimbo

why is he doing this???

oooh jealous and a control freak, he doesn't want you to have a life your a single mum you know and you cant have a life you know!

Good gracious he really is a tw*t tell him to get over himself and leave you to live your own life for goodness sake.....

Next thing you know he will be getting you a chatisy belt

Gosh, he hasn't moved on has he?

Dog in the manger syndrome

Same as mine mojo - he doesn't want you but doesn't want anyone else to have you...its a power/control/ownership thing - and they use the DC to excuse it

what anoys me the most is that he is married & was when we where together but i only found that out when i told him i was pregnant
so he should of moved on & he has no right at all to judge me in this way

tell him that mojosmum, he doesnt have any input in your life, I hardly think 1 relationship in 7.5 years is slag material, especially when you were good enough for him

men are complete b~@!~& when it comes to that, my ex tried to tell me i cant be with anyone else coz he doesnt want another man bringin up his kids, he always puts me down and calls me a slag yet we have only been split up just over a year and he already been living with another girl for 5months! i think they do just like to have control over us. he doesnt even play a fatherly role in my kids lives, hes never there for them doesnt give us any money and didnt even send a card, call or text on his daughters birthday!