I feel like no matter which way I approach the issue, it always feels like a struggle. I know that this is an odd way to go about this, but if your ex who you can't get on with wanted to change things for the betterment of your child, what would it take for you to see it that way as opposed to a game or him trying to get things his own way?
Just a devils advocate game I guess and see if I can take anything away from the responses :) thanks in advance.