Partner left me

[Mumt01]

Hi there. Just over two weeks ago my partner of 9 years left me and ds who's 6 and moved 3 hours away to live with his mum and dad. We had an argument about money and then he just packed all his things and left and started looking for new job straight away. He came back after two weeks to tell our landlord he wanted to come off the contract for our house. I just feel like I'm so stressed now and so much to deal with. Our son also has additional needs so hes very hard work and even though his father still wants to see him as hes so far away it will only be the odd weekend so never thought I would be bringing up our child on our own and I feel so low. Any advice?

Thanks
Mumt01

I don't have any advice, but bumping for you OP .

You need to look for the positives to get through the low times. Being a single parent isn't all bad- it's quite empowering to be able to do things your way and not be living in trepidation of the next row etc. Start by sorting out the practicalities. Can you afford to stay where you are? What support do you have? Are you entitled to any help? Can you speak to charities related with your son's additional needs to be how they can support you. You need to grieve for your relationship but don't let that grief destroy you. For now, your DS needs you to be strong for him. Good luck x

Make sure you are getting everything you are entitled too. Is he giving you maintenance? if not phone up cms.. it won't be back dated > Claim will start from day you claim.

Are you entitiled to DLA?

Are there any local support groups..These are helpful.

You will find your grove..