DP moved out two weeks ago after weeks of arguments. I think eventually we will be amicable but it's all fresh and raw at the moment and we can't speak without ending up arguing.
We have three dc's aged 5(nearly6) 3 and 2. We were discussing what to tell the eldest and how when he stuck his head around the door and told us not to worry, that he would just be gald to live without arguments as long as he could see his daddy .I've spoken to him several times since and said theat we both love him and that daddy will be living somewhere else but will see him lots etc etc. He genuinely seems fine.
The other two seem unconcerned, even though dp was very involved in their care, if quite distant with them. They haven't asked about him but I mention him quite often in a positive way just in case their little minds feels that they shouldn't be talking about him but they don't seem that interested.
today I heard the youngest ask her brother where daddy was - he told her "the shops"and that was the end of it.
I don't know whether I should tell them that daddy has gone to live in another house or just let things continue, especilly as they seem so relaxed about it. Or are they? I don't want to worry them as they seem fine
Any advice as to whether or what I should tell them welcome . I don't know whether I'm doing the right thing in telling them the truth or whether I should carry on as I am.