Help dont know what to do

[laney15]

So there is a contact order in place for ds19months old, 2 hrs supervised as ds hasnt seen dad since jan. Ive been helping with contact as ds has attachement issues, today again he cried wouldnt go to his dad. But his dad then finds ways to argue with me there was domestic violence in the relationship. All contact is in public and hes not allowed at my house. We have both been told to go on seperated parents course to which he said he isnt going he doesnt need it. Well he does he has no idea!! We are meant to only email about contact but he keeps messaging me about random things, bragging hes bought an ipad for him for chrimbo!! Then questioning me about my money laughing in my face about what he had lied about at court. Sorry for the long post. Just want some advice on what to do. I dont like leaving ds to cry everytime he sees his dad, i also dont want to continue contact with me involved, i have no one else to help as ex works shifts. Any advice will be appreciated

I would say with contact to your email anything that is nothing w do with your dd then completely ignore but don’t delete.

With contact it is going to sound harsh but yes I would leave her crying . I have had a child with separation issues so know how tough it is.

But my reason been currently he is supervised . Assuming no issues it will move onto unsupervised so at least he has supervision how he managed this.

The not doing the parenting course . Leave him to it . He will have to explain himself to the judge.

The 2 hrs supervised was with my dad and ive done it twice was for 4visits which has been done, tomorrow will be the first time unsupervised and im dredding it but i know it has to be done. Im ignoring all messages now unless its to do with our son. Im also trying to get hold of my solicitor to get advice. He thinks hes above the law and can do what he wants 😔😔