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Help! 3 yo hates me!

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LilliesMummyx · 20/06/2019 21:08

My daughter is 3 approaching 4 and has always been a happy, joyful child to be around she lights up a room with her character she's funny, clever and polite.

However .. she's recently 6 weeks ago started nursery which she absolutely loves! But her behaviour the last 3 weeks has been absolutely shocking. She's hitting saying things she would never say and acting out all the time.I feel like I can't take her anywhere because she's going to have a tantrum! We never really experienced terrible twos as I say she's always been such a happy go lucky little girl. Always smily and happy.
I have also recently Announced she's going to be a big sister. Which I know even though she's young can worry and stress her out but I've been constantly reassuring her.

I just don't know what to do with her or myself, my sister says it's a faze and will pass but I honestly feel like I'm loosing my baby! She usually tells me as I do her many times throughout the day that she loves me, but when I've been saying it to her she's been replying 'no I hate my mummy' it's absolutely breaking me!

Why does my 3 year old hate me!!! I work part time (her nursery hours) and I'm dedicated completely to her. I don't have much time away from her apart from working and it was working well for us, maybe now too much time together is the problem?

I'm so confused and heartbroken! Please anyone with a similar problem tell me how I get my sweet happy baby girl back! Xx

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Starlight456 · 20/06/2019 22:12

Your response needs to be but I will always love you know matter how it feels. They are words.

There are lots of changes for her. She is likely trying things out .

Stand firm it will pass

Rainatnight · 20/06/2019 22:14

Google ‘restraint collapse’.

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