I am having a lot of trouble with my sons dad.
Well actually I have had trouble with him since I was pregnant. My son is nearly 2 and starting to act out. My sons dad doesn't know what he works from one week to the next and I was fine with working around him so he could see our son but this is starting to become a big issue. Every time he asks to see my little boy and I say no as we have plans or it affects my time with him (I work nights) then he will kick off and send me abusive and coercive text messages. I have told him now he can have him 10-7 on a Sunday as this is the only day he can guarantee to have off. I have arranged to go to mediation and paid the admin fee for both of us as I want stability and routine for my son. He isn't willing to go to his employer and even ask for the same guaranteed days off each week so what am I supposed to do? I want my son to have a relationship with his dad but I'm on the verge of a break down with the amount of abuse I get off him and how he continuously puts me down as a mum. Does anyone else think I'm being unreasonable?