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Feeling sorry for myself

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Stillonly8am · 24/05/2019 18:09

It's a bit pathetic and I know it's probably partly PMT, but I'm so lonely. My best friends are all away this weekend visiting one of our other close friends who emigrated a few years back. I can't go with them because no childcare. I'm struggling to make new mum friends and keep having to cancel on old friends because of childcare issues. I'm so isolated at work because I'm not "one of the team" anyone since I took a step down and went part-time. I've nobody to talk to about this loneliness. If I told my mother how I felt, I'd get her usual sanctimonious bullshit about how being a mother is ^^supposed to be about being totally isolated and losing yourself. I just want to have a good cry when DD is in bed. Anyone want to join me?

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eve34 · 24/05/2019 21:12

Sorry to hear you are struggling. Bank holiday weekends are always a struggle with other families appearing to be out there doing wonderful things. How old is your dd? It does get easier as they get older.

Ha e you looked for and single parent groups. You are all in the same boat and understand how lonely it can be.

Can you send dd in a sleep over? I would entertain anyone's kids. Knowing I was banking return dates at another time.

Stillonly8am · 24/05/2019 21:35

Thank you. She's a bit young for sleepovers at the moment (3). I'm honestly very happy with my life but, today, I miss my friends so much.

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eve34 · 24/05/2019 21:41

In time it will get easier. Dd is six and has odd sleep overs. Although goes eow to her dads so that is positive for her.

Once she is in school things change and hopefully you can start to crave out
More of a life yourself.

My circle of friends have changed since ex left. And I have found some single mum friends which has really help

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