just a quick backround, have had full custody of my 3 children (all under 6) for the last 2.5years. the mother is supposed to see them every friday overnight. in the last 2.5 years i have worked out she averages only 1 friday a month, various excuses every week there has been a period were she hasnt seen the children for 5 weeks striaght. the 2 oldest children are now at the point were they actually do not want to stay the night when she decides to have them this obviously is upsetting for me as i dont want them not seeing thier mother or losing contact etc with her but i am at the point where i feel maybe i would be best to go back to court and state my point that i feel contact should be reduced as it isnt any good to any one the inconsistency of it all. my worry is however i dont want to be the one to have to tell the children in the future that i was the one who stopped contact, any ideas on how to handle this?
just to note the children dont ask to see her or speak about her they dont seem affected by it at all.