( long story) Me and ex separated on good terms when pregnant with DS aged 4. We put in place that ex would have ds one night per week and visit at home anytime he liked he would even take ds to his for few hours in week.
Our friendship deteriorated so he was no longer coming to our home to see him or take him to his house. Although I was never against him doing so for our sons sake. I suggested every other weekend to make sure they had plenty time together.
He has now decided he would rather have one night at weekend with son. I wouldn't have an issue with this but more often than not he has been dropped at his mother's by lunchtime so she can drop him off at agreed time 6pm. Therefore only spending few hours together. Son has now said a few times he doesn't want to go to his dads...how doni deal with this...thanks if you made it this far.