I arranged for ex-p to bring his older kids to see the baby a couple of weekends ago. He didn't come despite having made a great hoo-ha about it. He didn't let us know.
I still haven't heard from him and it's starting to sink in that I can - almost - relax a bit, for the time being. But the truth is, I can't really write him out of our lives, can I? I mean, he could front up any old time, making noises about access, and I wouldn't be able to prevent it as far as I can see.
Has anyone experience of ex partners showing a real lack of commitment, then turning up a few years down the line...I'm trying to get a balanced outlook as to what we can expect.
I have been told that if he shows a blatant lack of commitment, this will count against him in future - is that correct?
Thanks - you know me on here but I had to name change last week.
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What now, if ex doesn't seem to want to see his son?
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SurferRosa · 04/07/2007 13:03
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