Ex is on his THIRD new woman in 6 months.....!

[aimeesmummy]

Im not entirely suprised, Im not jealous (I initiated the split) but I AM jealous that he has the time, energy and confidance. The first woman, he started seeing before he moved out, the 2nd was a flirtation at work and the 3rd is also someone at work. He was quite happy (not smug, just comfortable) telling me this evening when he rang to speak to dd that he had a friend over for dinner last night which turned into a late night and is knackered today.
Hhmmnnn.... theres me with no time, no energy and zero confidence...!
ITS NOT FAIR!!!

awwww he'll get a std dont' worry,

It must be annoying to watch him do this.
But.....the fact that he's already on GF number 3 just shows that you must be a very hard act to follow.

Thank you, both!!! I won't be paying a return visit to show him what he's missing so he can't pass anything on!

he is obviously only after quantity not quality

my ex H is still like this parties like he is 18 every night to with 19-20 yr olds
he is 45

in time you will laff at his isecure life and realise that you have grown up and left him behind

your confidence does come back it just all takes time I was at my most confident about 12 -18 months on when everthing was sorted out and I knew I could cope on my own and was doing a great job of it

then I met someone else 2 more children later we are still together

all the best youre doing your best as a mommy which is far more important than doing the best for your dick!!!!!

I read on another thread here somewhere that men get into new relationships quite quickly because they want to replace the old one, whereas women tend to take their time because they look to improve or change the last one - which is exactly why I finished with him!! My confidence was on a euphoric high for a few months but hit rock bottom in May and I'm crawling out of that and recognising my new life style for the harsh reality that it is. I'll live! I do get some attention but they're all married blokes at work, so no-go...!