I am probably going to get a lot of backlash for what I am about to say but I am really struggling at being a single parent! All my kids are to the same father but when I was in labour YES you hear in labour and they were trying to stop it because it was too early he cheated & well now we're not together so I am a single parent to a 3 year old a 2 year old and a 5 month old my 5 month old needs ALOT of attention because he's always in and out of hospital poorly and my 3 year old is Beyond naughty he has a children's worker for his behaviour AND NO that's not social services or anything remotely like that. But I am struggling so bad I don't have family who understand how bad it is they just say I shouldn't have had all the kids so close together but how was I to know I would have become a single mother because for all I knew I was going to have support off their father but he only has the two eldest 2 nights a week he doesn't bother any other time or with the youngest and doesn't help financially in any sort of way