Hello,
Me and my 'partner' have one child together who's now 2 in December.
We've had troubles but now working on our relationship. He said he was looking for a place to be closer to work as he is getting tired of biking 50 mins each way at 6 am and returning home around 11pm/midnight.
I agreed and helped him find a cheap single bed share house near work he could crash at and then be with us on days off.
Well today I got angry because I find out he's renting a one bed flat and told me he's off to sign the agreement. Deposit included.
Our house doesn't even have flooring in some rooms nor does my daughter have a finished room cause I couldn't afford it yet. And I didn't know he had all this money.
It's a council house and I got it in my name when we were having relationship issues. So I guess he always planned this tbh.
He didn't suggest breaking up or anything, but I did angrily when he told me.
Was I wrong?
Why would he get a one bed flat just to crash at in between shifts?
To make matters worse, he has booked a 2 week holiday in January for himself in a country 5 hours away to visit family etc.
Not sure what to do..
Thank you