Has anyone experienced emotional abuse in a child?

[2kids1me]

Hi I’m hoping someone on here can help,
I’ve spoken to child services today for support but I didn’t get any yet as it wasn’t an urgent case which I understand.
Last night my 5 year old son told me he was afraid of his dad!
His dad emotionally abused me, I thought that stopped with me but now I fear it hasn’t.
There have been a few occasions where I have thought he was being a twat but never to the point I thought too much in to it.
My son also tells elaborate stories at times!
However after speaking to my son again tonight he is changing his story slightly, but when talking to me he is shaking?
All signs are telling me something isn’t right, but my worry is I will blow it out of proportion and create an unnecessary war!
Unfortunately I worry as I too feel easily manipulated by this man!
Has anyone else been in this situation to advise me of their child’s behaviour?
Did your child still feel they wanted to see the parent they claim to be afraid of?
Did their stories change?
Did they struggle to make new friends and act like the aggressive parent?
I feel at a total loss, I am torn. Naturally I believe my child, if he tells me something I believe him. But I could use perspective and advice
Thank you

Children are very resilient. I experienced emotional abuse as a child but I didn’t show it beyond being a bit sullen and shy. Only you can know whether his behaviour is concerning or not.

OP what did your DS say that makes you think he is being abused? I would need some evidence of what is actually happening between them & why your DS is upset? If you're really worried then I would follow the advice from the local authority (what did they say?) Generally I think its a goid idea to allow your DS some time with his DD but only if its safe. What's the current arrangement & are there any formal agreements or orders in place?

He physically told me he is afraid of his dad, and said he’s always mad at him and shouting. He also said his dad told him to ‘f’ off! he also said his dad shouts at his current partner so she goes out a lot?

Sorry to hear this, did you continue seeing that parent?

hmmm, I would definitely seek some help with it and advice, what about your GP or health visitor? If you believe that he is being emotionally put at risk then you have a responsibility to step in, I guess you are worried about speaking to your ex? but do you have any trusted friends or family who could tactfully find out whats going on there? or anyone who knows him who wouldn't tell him about your concerns bit might be able to tell you their situation?

I don't know what I'd do but honestly it doesn't sound good.