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Wish I didn't need the validation

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purplelass · 05/09/2018 21:19

I've been a single mum to my teenage daughter for 3 years with very little support, financial or practical, from her dad.
Although he was pretty useless when he lived with us I liked having a second opinion on decisions made for our daughter and reassurance that I was doing the right things for her.
I miss that.
My daughter is amazing but she struggles with anxiety and I can't help but think this is my fault and if her dad was more involved it would be better for her but if I ask then he makes it all about him and says how she doesn't ask him for help so why should he get involved if it's going to help me. Pointless twat.
Don't know what my point is really, just wanted to vent. Thanks for reading.

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bettycat81 · 05/09/2018 21:39

I get it.

It's one thing I miss. I have also developed a habit of trying to validate my actions/decisions with anyone that will listen.

Sorry no advice but I hope it reassures you that you are not alone.

purplelass · 05/09/2018 22:21

I have also developed a habit of trying to validate my actions/decisions with anyone that will listen

Yep, I do that too. Trouble is that it always sounds to me like I'm either whining or bragging...
Sorry you feel like this too but glad I'm not the only one

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