Hello...
I havent written on here before and it'll be great to read others opinions on my situation. okay here goes...
im currently 32 wks gone and thought i had a great relationship until i woke up and gave myself a reality check.
I met my partner whilst he was married, yet separated but still living with his young son and his 'wife'. he was in the process of putting the flat up for sale and organising his application to join the police.
I fell pregnant, with him promising the world...within a few weeks moving, holidays money for baby things etc etc
But over the last few months problems came crawling outta the woodwork like the thousands of pounds of debt his 'wife' owed which he had to help pay off, turning down start dates with the police, problems with the sale of the flat, violent arguments between him and his 'wife'. gradually i was put further and further down his list of priorities to the extent of i havent seen him for a month or spoken to him for two weeks. a couple of text messages telling me "will get sorted - all for the greater good".
But now iv had it, iv sorted out buying the travel system, nappies etc, midwife apps on my own etc etc iv had enough. IM 23 and luckily have a supportive family yet money is a stretch. Does this sound familiar to anyone...?
Sorry for ranting on for so long just that its good to get it all out so that i can justify the decisions i will make.