I just wanted to find out what other people do in this situation..
DS (2) is starting with a child minder soon as I am going to start looking for work. He is booked in for the hours that are funded at the moment but this is likely to increase if I get a job. So the childcare that will need to be paid for: do you split the cost of it or does that come under the child maintenance payments?
I appreciate that a lot of people will not get any maintenance etc so I realise that I could be a lot worse off but just want to find out the norm.
For reference, XP lives 4 hours away and visits every couple of weeks (shift work) so couldn't be relied upon for child care.
Thank you.