Hi I’m new to this..a second time round single parent, can’t believe I’m here again!..I ended a relationship of 5 and half years. My ex constantly chose to please his ex whom he has a 9 year old with he also has a 16 year old with another women. So much so that I have spent every weekend at his parents house because that’s where his children stay every weekend. I have a four year old with him and I have had a handful of weekends with him and my daughter on our own..his mother and ex have controlled his every move between them..he suffers from anxiety and stress and finds it hard to voice his opinion or say no. Except to me that is!..there are so many things that have happened but the last straw for me is when our daughter and I went to meet his ex and his son to take him to his grandmothers house and the ex said I want to talk to you..she expected my partner to walk away from me to spk with her..my partner hesitated as it was clear he felt he shouldn’t but did in end so i said to his ex is it private and she said it’s to do with our son and they walked off..my daughter was getting restless so I let her out of the car and walked over to a small huddle where basically she just wanted to tell her son off for not eating a sandwich. She was spitting feathers because I stood there and I said that we should meet and talk sometime but she said I have nothing to say to you. What I am saying is that she has used her son to speak to my now ex..sending messages does daddy still love me etc etc I cld go on and on..to cut to end part my partner has tried to set up business and has been away for 6 weeks and has been communicating by whattappt.. for some reason I thought to check if his ex was online at same time and every time he was talking to me she was online too. She isn’t on line unless he is..I became a bit crazy looking because I was so upset I have always had suspicion because of him always putting her first..I always have felt like I am in the wing in my own relationship..I asked him if he is still talking to his ex baring in mind it’s a lot on weekends when his child is at his mothers therefore it’s clearly not communication about their child. I confronted him and he said he does not speak to her and he loves me but he has only ever shouted at me when I have attempted to talk about her..I finished it yesterday as I am at end of tether..I am so upset but I know in my heart I deserve more..she always appeared to have something over me and on occasions he has returned home with sperm on his t-shirts but has said it’s through masterbation..I feel like I have gone crazy but I know it’s not in my head..can anyone relate? Emssss