There was a domestic voilence incident and i broke my relaltionship up. My ex partner is still completely obsessed with me and also has ajustment disorder. He stopped seeing the children and hasn't gave me any money for them in the 5 months since we split.
He saw them sporadicly at first but i was coping well with having to see him to drop children off and pick up as he kept following us home, that made me uneasy so i have made him sort out a contact centre as i don't see why i should face him everytime the children see him. He also cannot have them at his home as its unsuitable (a amall bedroom in a houseshare)
His argument was if he can't see his children why should he pay for them so has told me to print csa mutual agreement forms and he will start to pay once i have filled my part in. Problem is that would mean me seeing him. Why can he not just do a bank transfer and start to pay for his children, rather than putting me through more of this. I'm also now waiting on contact centre to see if we are suitable but in the mean time he wants to collect some items from the house that he has shown no interest in since he has been gone. Just feel so dragged down by this :(