My dd is 17 months and has been stopping overnight at her dad's every other weekend since she was 10 months. He collects her at 11 am on a Saturday and drops her back at 4pm on a Sunday. However it has become increasingly obvious over the last few months that her behaviour changes when she comes home, she seems very detached, unloving & not the happy little girl that I saw the day before. She is also off her food & unsettled. Not for one second do I think that her dad is a bad farther & I know he thinks the world of her, however I am now starting to feel guilty that I am sending her there and it isn't good for her emotionally. My main priority is my child but I do want her to have a healthy relationship with her dad also . Has anyone else been in the situation or has any ideas?