I’m having a dilemma about money stuff. So I’m earning a really good salary as I have a good job and made some good financial decisions. So I’m financially independent. My ex partner and I split up a year ago after ten years and he needed time to get back on his feet he hadn’t been working for quite a few years and this was a problem. Anyway I know most people receive a monthly payment for their children but he pays for school uniform, clothes, shoes, school clubs etc. Right now we don’t pay for childcare as we are fortunate to have a set up with my mum. I’m having a moral dilemma. Now he seems to be earning and paying his own bills rent etc and has sorted his life out. Do I continue with this arrangement or ask him for a monthly contribution which would be significantly more. Is that greedy? Should the status quo remain. Maybe he should pay into a savings account. What do you think?
We have a very pleasant relationship which has all been agreed very amicably and I wonder if it’s better to work on that.