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Someone slap me please?

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mustbemad17 · 09/12/2017 19:51

Been such a wet lettuce today! Not sure whether I'm hormonal (14 weeks pregnant) or whether I actually am just being a weed but all I've done today is cry.

Today is two weeks since my ex walked out on me & DD(5) without a backward glance - a watsapp message was all we got, returning home to find most of his stuff gone. Since then, buggar all contact. Nothing about baby, nothing about DD, no explanation. He sent his daughter & his ex-wife to collect his stuff for him ffs!!

My head knows he is a bellend & we are so much better off without him. But I currently feel like someone has my heart in their fist & they're squeezing it, crushing it to death. I look around my flat & see nothing of him, & it makes me ridiculously sad. And there's this big part of me that wants to text him, begging him to just come home 😔

Please can somebody slap me out of this? I am usually in control, I can do this...except for this time

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Whoknows11 · 09/12/2017 20:52

Has he gone back to his ex wife?

NorthernSpirit · 10/12/2017 00:04

How spineless to WhatsApp you and then get his EW & daughter to pick up his things. No manners or respect for you. You deserve more. Keep your chin up, the pain gets easier.

mustbemad17 · 10/12/2017 08:32

Who I doubt it, altho he could be staying there as she kept the house when they divorced & has spare rooms. My feeling is he has gone back to his ex partner he was with before me, not sure why but I think he has.

He's a coward, he won't even give me an explanation. And whilst he is off in his own little world i'm trying to pick up the pieces & face the fact that I will be a single mum of two!

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