Contact concerns

[Lauralou69]

I have recently stopped my 6 year old having contact with her dad because last Sunday he had been drinking during contact. He has a history of alcohol abuse and is currently on a double suspended sentence for alcohol fueled violence. He also has BPD but is in denial. I am seeing a solicitor on weds. My ex is trying to make out he is fine, i have documented history of police call outs, suicide attempts and criminal activity. My daughter has also told me that she doesn't feel safe with daddy. I have contacted ss but they won't get involved because i am safeguarding her. I need support.

Sounds like my ex...

I stopped contact for various reasons..

It got as far as CAFCASS..IT was 5 years ago but I had a telephone conversation with her..I had lots of documented evidence of diagnosis.The fact he admitted trying to kill me and lots of concerns..She said she would need to speak to Ex but was planning to to have any contact until he had been assessed. He then withdrew from the case. CAFCASS like facts ..So make sure you have everything documented by others preferably.

I would at least speak to a solicitor even if for the 30 mins free for advice.

Hi, thanks, yes i can get plenty of evidence, multiple calls to police to have him removed, his mental health record under crisis team, his alcohol support group. I assume my solicitor will be able to access all of that. He won't give up, his daughter is his world, apparently. He's not allowed to contact me or come to my house, he has been given a verbal warning for harassment so if he does he'll go straight to prison as he is on a double suspended sentence. My main worry is that i also suspect he has narcissistic personality disorder, he believes he is dad of the year; takes NO responsibility for anything and is adept at manipulation and playing the victim. I am scared he'll charm his way out if this and get 50/50?