My children's Dad has decided that he will return home to live - he is Spanish and is returning to Spain. I have no idea of the implications of this on our children as he won't discuss when he plans seeing our children etc with me. Instead he is planning on taking matters back to the family court - we have a child arrangements order that was issued less than a year ago. The children are 15 and 11 and are under the impression they will be expected to fly alone and that they will be going to Spain every single school holiday. Has anyone any experience of this situation? When do your children see their Dad? Does Dad collect them or do they fly alone? They don't have the best relationship with him as it is and I fear that their relationship will cease to exist with the distance. Selfishly I also worry for myself as I am in a relationship with a new partner and my relationship is conducted mostly on my weekends without the children. I will no longer have any free weekends so can't see how the relationship will last. My family aren't hugely supportive.