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So bloody happy...I have come out on top and karma is going to get him.

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DoubleNegativePanda · 03/05/2017 19:32

I live in the US, and we file our income tax returns between January and April. In march my return was rejected by the IRS because someone had already used my dd's social security number to claim a dependent. I asked ex if he had claimed her, and he said yes and pretty much told me it's "first come first serve" and to take a flying leap.

Now, two years ago I took him back to court and was awarded full residential custody. I am the only person who can legally claim her. I saw my attorney and ended up refiling a completely different way, with a lot of documentation etc and directed it straight to the auditing department. I never in my life thought I'd be asking for a tax audit; most people live in fear of being audited even if they didn't do anything wrong.

I just checked my bank account and my tax refund has just cleared! So relieved, as that's what I was planning on using to pay for having dd's wisdom teeth removed.

What I've just been told though is that at the very least, he will have to pay back the refund he received, and as he won't be able to do that (he already spent it, and not on dd) his wages will be garnished. That will likely result in him losing his job as he works for law enforcement. Plus, one of the tax credits he claimed is apparently a very serious one, and carries a two year prison sentence if they find he intentionally defrauded them.

He's such a piece of crap. I almost hope he goes to prison. He was controlling and terribly emotionally abusive. I think he never imagined that in the five years we've been divorced I've recovered my backbone and there was no way I was going to roll over on this. What I'd give to be a fly on the wall when he gets the notice.

Perhaps I'm being evil. I can live with it.

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nevernotstruggling · 03/05/2017 19:39

He took the risk not you. Karma indeed

sunnysouthend · 03/05/2017 19:45

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ZilphasHatpin · 03/05/2017 19:54

You're not evil. You did everything exactly as you should have done. You couldn't have been expected to just accept not getting your tax refund that you were totally entitled to. What else could you do? He made the choice to file fraudulent tax returns!

neonrainbow · 03/05/2017 20:05

He was basically stealing from you using your daughter. He's got it coming.

DoubleNegativePanda · 03/05/2017 20:22

I guess I meant that I feel a bit evil at my gleeful hand-rubbing at the things that may befall him as a result. Prison?

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NellieFiveBellies · 03/05/2017 20:24

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reallyanotherone · 03/05/2017 20:26

Does he pay you maintenance? Will losing his job affect that?

DoubleNegativePanda · 03/05/2017 20:28

He doesn't pay maintenance. He makes little enough money that what I would receive wasn't worth the grief, and I was more concerned with getting DD away from that toxic situation.

It won't affect me at all if he loses his job.

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MovingtoParadise · 03/05/2017 22:19

Well done you Flowers

Is he a prison guard? Can't they garnish his wages to pay child support - surely he earns enough to pay?

lifesjoys · 05/05/2017 18:54

Woohoo! Fair play to you!! Flowers

SoftlyCatchyMonkey1 · 05/05/2017 19:21

Keep us updated with what happens OP x

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