Hello, I split up with my husband and moved out 6 weeks ago after a long period of counselling and six months of me telling him I wanted to split up. No matter how many times I tell him we're over he won't accept it.
We have 3 children. I didn't split up and move out lightly, we are trying to keep things amicable.
I have the opportunity to have fun with someone else, which I would really like as a pick me up but would feel like I was being unfaithful. I don't want a relationship, this person would never be serious, never meet the children but it would make me feel attractive again. When is it ok to move on and have some fun?