Ok so he's only been seeing them again over the past 3 weeks and wants to change this Sunday or next Saturday coz of work.
I have allowed this to happen because he said it's for work. But I know if this was he other way round like I had to stay late a college and I asked him to pick the kids up he would say no. ( I know this coz I asked last year). Obviously iv got to gibe him the benefit of doubt. But it's so early to even think about changing the routine. By September he will have full weekends every other weekend what do I do if he wants to change it then coz of work. He has had everything his own way for 13 years and yes I know it's work which means money but not for my kids to benefit from more so he and his gf can sit in the pub every day of the week.
Tbh I feel annoyed with myself for saying yes, but I would also feel bad for saying no. I know my ex give him and inch and he will take a mile and iv just walked inot what could be the worst thing iv done as he will (I know he will) try and change it again at some point.
How do I stop this feeling of thinking iv done wrong by letting him change the days